Having Your Baby When Others (or You) Say No!

By Madeline Pecora Nugent

Originally Published by Avery Publishing Group

Garden City Park, New York, 1991

A complete, on-line, self-help book dealing with

unplanned, surprise, unwanted, or crisis pregnancies.

Workable solutions for every situation, plus computer privacy.

This book may be ordered in published form (while supplies last) for $5 per copy by clicking on this link.

Table of Contents (click on yellow links to access chapters)

 

PREFACE

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

INTRODUCTION

I. PREGNANCY CRISIS--FIRST REACTIONS

Solving Your Problems--One at a Time

Bothering with a Pregnancy

II. GETTING THROUGH THE PREGNANCY

Confirming, Confiding, Caring, Concealing--Four

C's of Pregnancy Crisis

Keeping Your Pregnancy a Secret

Relieving Panic and Stress

Developing a Positive Attitude

Writing Your Way Through Your Crisis

Obtaining the Essentials

III. DEALING WITH OTHERS

Dealing Wisely with Professionals

Handling Family and Friends

Influencing Your Love Relationships

Continuing Your Education and Career

Handling Pregnancy in Prison

IV. HEALTH CONCERNS

Facing Medical Difficulties

Confronting Fears About Your Health

Confronting Fears About Your Baby's Health

Choosing Prenatal Testing

V. AFTER THE BIRTH

Thinking About Parenting Your Baby

Fitting Baby into Your Lifestyle

Thinking About Adoption

Making an Adoption Plan

VI. HEALING SEXUAL TRAUMA

Dealing with Sexual Violence

Overcoming Sexual Pressure

Creating a New You

VII. PAINFUL CIRCUMSTANCES

Facing Your Own Death

Making Parenting Plans for the

Special Needs or Dying Child

Dealing with Previous Abortion

Living Through Your Baby's Death

VIII. HOPE FOR THE FUTURE

APPENDICES

Appendix A A Summary of Prenatal Development

Appendix B Letter from an Adult with Special Needs

Appendix C Birth for the Mentally Retarded Mother

Appendix D If You Don't Want a Child

Appendix E Choosing Professional Care

Appendix F Evaluating Lifestyle Options

Appendix G Parenting Choices

Appendix H Using Special Agencies

Appendix I Reading for Ideas

WORKS CONSULTED

ONE EXAMPLE OF A Pregnancy AIDgency--ON-LINE INFORMATION